I am who I am

And that is all that I am.





This is very hard for me at this moment in my life to express my heart/mind to the world, but I will say these last few months have been the worst months of my life. I was dating someone (J$tash) that abused me verbally ,emotionally and physically throughout the end duration of our relationship. Monday morning on September 15th 2014 my life was forever, changed. A person I thought and believed I could trust, whom I gave my love/time/energy to brutally punched me in my face repeatedly with his fists while I became slowly unconscious covered in blood in his brooklyn apartment bed. After he was done he told me to not tell anyone to not tell my friends, He also started to prepare legal action to protect himself in case I pressed charges against him. He cried and became unstable within his emotions and was apologetic towards his actions, but would continue to say i did this to myself.

He then boarded a flight to Japan a few hours after and has been sending me text messages claiming he will destroy me even more than he already did. He said he will ruin my life! I got brutally beaten for confronting him on infidelity which caused him to become violent in an instant.

Do not interpret this as a cry for help this is honestly a decision to speak up against domestic violence for those who cant due to the manipulative acts our abusers inflict on us to never speak up and for those who didn’t survive because of brutal domestic violence.

I will not allow myself to sit in the shadows of darkness and disrespect myself for not taking a stand.

I am speaking out for all my women!

Be brave this is what bravery looks like.

Abuser: Justin Joseph / J$tash

I’m reblogging this primarily because this story is far too common & prevalent amongst women especially now. By means of social media we do damage control & protect those who have harmed us because we are ashamed of having been a victim, Danii has more courage than I & I commend her on that regard. Please understand her message

God bless this strong woman. I witnessed my mother endure years of abuse and I vowed to always be a pillar for the stand against it. Reblog now.

:-( so proud of you, bb

(via blackgirlcrisis)


Do not

under any circumstance


"kindly suggest"

or just blatantly tell me to

relax my hair.

Anonymous asked: Sometimes i feel like im "white" accoarding to ppl. Just because im not loud, love indie music and reading and im a good student. Its annoying af ppl underestimate me due to my roots, like, "stfu im smart just like everybody expept you ignorant cunt"


You’re basically saying that black people are loud and uneducated and because you aren’t either of those things you are less black like your friends are saying. Think about that. You are black. Reading books and having a high GPA doesn’t change that.

it seems like you have a certain idea of how black people are suppose to be and that’s not right.